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Dating Confessions Vol. 3: Strapping The Saddle

Dating Confessions Vol. 3: Strapping The Saddle

By: Sebastien “The Gay Bestie” Gaudin

Recently, I was asked about how long it takes some men to wrap it up before sex. Apparently, some guys are struggling with an effective and quick way to strap the saddle. Ladies, this is your time to get creative and wow him just a little bit. I’m giving you a whole new way to securely wrap up every inch and leave him speechless.


When you and your guy are in the moment and things are getting hot and heavy there comes a time to grab the saddle before going for the ride. This is when you step in and do a little seduction. I’m sure many of you are use to him getting off the bed and heading across the room to snatch a condom. How about laying right there next to him and hearing the elastic snap from the condom. Well sometimes waiting has caused many seas to dry or even have his soldier fall asleep.


As The Gay Bestie I encourage to never be afraid of showing off a new way in sexual safety. Have you ever tried to put the condom on for him? Please refrain from giving him a tutorial; this is all about stimulation. Try and picture yourself straddling him across the bed while kissing at the same time. Remember in this position you’re pretty much running the show and he’s going to follow your direction. Try to give him enough kisses as a distraction to get the condom ready. By this point his soldier should already be standing at attention.


Once ready pull yourself up and make your way south. Remember to open it with two fingers as opposed to your teeth. You want to wrap it up, not tear it up yet. Place the liberated top of the condom in-between your lips and slide to where you’re face-to-face with his soldier. If you’re not comfortable with sliding the condom down with just your mouth, use your fingers as a guide too. Be sure to do this with enough room for him to watch you work! Always finish with your eyes locked on his.



No worries you can thank me later!


P.S. This is not a handshake or a treat to share with anyone, but someone you’re either committed to or that you find special. -Much Love Ladies

About The Writer:


As a New Jersey native it came as no surprise when, Sebastien, birthed a knack for talking and writing. During his college days the young blogger gained experience through international talkers such as The Maury Show and The Mo’nique Show. After years of interning and assisting the aspiring journalist threw caution to the wind and launched The Gay Bestie LLC.


The lifestyle and culture company provides a different spin on love, sex, relationships, and fashion.  #TGB focuses on the 21st Century woman and her loyal companion, other known as the gay bestie. Readers will find discussions that are usually held behind closed doors placed in the forefront to totally meet the needs of all. No, topic is ever off limits.


So ladies brace yourselves because Sebastien is taking you places where you’ll be sure to blush and share a laugh! He’s giving exactly what’s been missing. Grab you’re favorite beverage (i.e. red wine), sit back, and prepare to gab about this with your girlfriends the minute you see them.


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