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Dating Confessions Vol. 5: The Solo Body Party!

Dating Confessions Vol. 5: The Solo Body Party!

By: Sebastien “@TheGayBestie” Gaudin

Self-pleasing is still a timeless pleasure many of us can’t pass up. There is nothing like a physical eruption caused by oneself at the right time. Yes, I’m talking about a solo body party and it’s time to get hands on!


It’s a perfectly and completely natural activity to partake in. It’s so important to know how to please yourself first before anyone else tries to give a “hand”. Masturbating has had this hush-hush barrier around it, but that just means its my duty to discuss it. To be honest a few times a week always does a few of us right or am I lying?


No, its not an addiction its simply another form of relaxation or healthy distraction. Especially, when you’re single and there isn’t a mister around simply snatch up B.O.B. (battery operated boyfriend) and put those hands to use.


Exploring your own body educates you on your sensuality while adding self-appreciation. Men find it quite appealing when a woman has the confidence to actually do it. Most importantly you’re learning exactly what turns you on and what doesn’t. In the past I’ve heard too many horrifying displeasing sexcapades by fellow girlfriends because some guy didn’t know what he was doing.


Call me crazy, but I always encourage my girls (including you) to speak up during the act if need be. Let’s be honest just because his ex loved it doesn’t mean you will. For example, some of us like it moist, dry, quick, or drawn out.


One of my really close girlfriends shared that masturbation taught her how to guide her man in the bedroom. She expressed that it helped mostly in the early stages of thier sex life. Later she dished that her vibrator did things that her boyfriend didn’t. Now I’m not saying he never could, but after pleasing herself in front of him it gave him a full on Class In Session 101. Looking back her sex life was sitting at a mere 4 and now its at a solid 9.5. Ladies if you haven’t dipped down there lately I think its time to take a tour.


There is no need to be shy with @TheGayBestie


 About The Writer:


As a New Jersey native it came as no surprise when Sebastien, birthed a knack for l talking and writing. During his college days the young blogger gained experience through international talkers such as The Maury Show and The Mo’nique Show. After years of interning and assisting the aspiring journalist threw caution to the wind and launched The Gay Bestie, LLC.  

The lifestyle and culture company provides a different spin on love, sex, relationships, and fashion.  #TGB focuses on the 21st Century woman and her loyal companion, other known as the gay bestie. Readers will find discussions that are usually held behind closed doors placed in the forefront to totally meet the needs of all. No, topic is ever off limits. 

So ladies brace yourselves because Sebastien is taking you places where you’ll be sure to blush and share a laugh! He’s giving exactly what’s been missing. Grab you’re favorite beverage (i.e. red wine), sit back, and prepare to gab about this with your girlfriends the minute you see them.


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