Valentine’s Day’s origins stem from a festival held in ancient Rome when couples were paired off in a lottery. Although a lottery system no longer creates couples, the holiday continues to emphasize romantic pairings. It’s common for single people to feel pressure to find a date for Valentine’s Day, while people in relationships may struggle to impress their partner. Use these tips to find a great way to impress your date, whether it’s with Valentine’s Day flowers, chocolates, or an online date.
Valentine’s Day Favorites
Valentine’s Day flowers are one of the standard gifts given on Valentine’s Day. Florists create beautiful floral arrangements you can choose from, or you can customize your order to include blooms that your date loves, like tulips or daisies. Red roses are among the most popular choices, but you can also choose lilies, carnations, and hyacinths. Although red symbolizes love, you may want to include your partner’s favorite colors in their bouquet. Whatever you decide, you should consult a florist early and order the best flowers in advance. Flowers are in demand, which can affect their price and availability.
Chocolates and stuffed animals are also popular Valentine’s gifts. If you choose to deliver Valentine’s flowers to your date in person, you can include these gifts with the bouquet. Choosing your partner’s favorite chocolates or favorite flowers is a way of showing you know and care about the things they like. You may also opt to give your partner a necklace or bracelet. Jewelry is a personal gift, making it an ideal choice for couples who’ve been together for some time.
Many couples go out for dinner to celebrate. This is a common date option, so it’s a good idea to make reservations in advance to ensure you’ll have a table at your chosen restaurant. Valentine’s Day is a great day to revisit one of your favorite restaurants or to splurge on dinner at an expensive restaurant your partner has always wanted to try.
First Dates
If Valentine’s Day is your first date with someone, it’s a good idea to stick to traditional Valentine’s gifts if you opt to buy your date a present. Small gifts are a way of showing them you’re thoughtful and make a good first impression, but they may be intimidated by expensive presents. A single long-stem red rose is a thoughtful gesture.
You likely suggested an activity when you asked your date out. Stick to those plans and focus on your appearance to impress your date. Buy a new outfit. Whether you opt for jeans and a shirt or something a little more formal, getting a haircut and wearing new clothes will demonstrate that you’ve spent time preparing to see your date. If you need to change your activities a little bit because you can’t get a reservation, contact your date in advance and discuss your options to ensure they’re comfortable with the change of plans.
Blind Dates
If you’re going on a blind date, you may want to look up your blind date on social media beforehand or ask the person who set you up, whether it’s a coworker or your best friend, about your date. Doing a bit of research can help you get a sense of their style and interests, which may help you choose a good restaurant or pick another appropriate activity for your date. You’re more likely to have an enjoyable date if you focus on activities you both enjoy.
Long-Term Relationships
Couples who’ve been together for some time face unique challenges. You may be trying to outdo prior dates you’ve had. If you have time and money, plan a getaway. Book a trip to a resort. Whether you head for a beach or snow-covered mountains, you’ll be able to take advantage of the activity options at your destination.
If you’re staying home, you can pamper your partner. You could send them to a spa or plan for one of their favorite activities. You can also opt to complete one of their dream activities. Has your partner dreamed of riding in a horse-drawn sleigh or cutting a demo in a professional recording studio? Making arrangements to fulfill a life-long dream is a meaningful way of showing your partner how much you care about them.
Whether you’re preparing for your first date or making plans with your true love, it can be challenging to know how to impress your date on Valentine’s. Combining typical Valentine’s gifts and activities with personalized activities is an ideal way for long-term couples to celebrate. At the same time, people on first dates may want to focus on traditional gifts and activities. Either way, enjoy the time with your sweetie!