One Night Only

Having a one nightstand isn’t always broadcasted for the world to see, but we all know it happens.  The night when a girlfriend or yourself has the urge to make a certain guy for the evening a sex siren before the sun comes up. It can be a liberating experience if handled in a mature way or a tragedy if not. It’s always important to have the reason behind your actions in check ladies. For example, don’t start giving it up to random men like Samantha on Sex & The City just because she do it. Remember at the end of the day Kim Cattrall who played Samantha unrobed and went home once cut was called.

Further on, a new sexual experience heightens the rush and thrill of the moment. The new partner adds the ability of excitement to what can happen. As the intensity rises and heartbeats speed up there usually isn’t any turning back. Many of us usually get caught up in the moment at this point wanting more. Ready to just indulge in the moment. Key thing is to always carry your own protection. Don’t ever rely on the other person to be prepared especially if they are just a one nightstand. We already know how some men can be careless, so remain “on top” of it all!

Have fun in the moment and not try to over think it. Allow yourself to be free if you so choose to do it. I don’t condone to do this all the time, but if you’re trying something new and ask the proper preliminary questions you’ll be fine. Keep in mind that protection is your best friend while exploring your sexuality. Try different things you’re curious about and feel free try to and introduce them in a relationship one day. Please be advised to leave the one nightstand there. I know it may sound a little weird, but that’s one of the main reasons. No strings attached give both sides freedom. Plus this guy may have the wrong impression of you so newsflash its just sex for him; think of it the same way for you.

Sebastien "@TheGayBestie" Gaudin

As a New Jersey native it came to no surprise when Sebastien birthed a knack for writing. During his college days the young blogger gained experience through international talkers such as The Maury Show and The Mo’nique Show. After years of interning and assisting the aspiring journalist threw caution to the wind and launched The Gay Bestie, LLC. Ladies brace yourselves because Sebastien is taking you places where you’ll be sure to blush and share a laugh! He’s giving exactly what’s been missing. Grab you’re favorite beverage (i.e. red wine), sit back, and prepare to gab about this with your girlfriends the minute you see them.