Anal Sex: Bending Over Forward

Now that you’re passed questioning your man’s sexuality its time talk anal sex. This right here is going to take some patience and education. My fellow gays and I can attest to having an accident at least the first time we’ve tried anal. In other words we’ve made a mess someway and somehow during the act. I encourage if you know this is something you’re going to try watch what you eat before hand and flush yourself out thoroughly. For example, eating things that are easy to digest are going to benefit you in the long run. Stick to fruits and waters for the majority of the day if possible.

Purchase an enema from your local drug store, which is less than $5 for a two pack. It’s worth it I promise and will keep you from embarrassment. Follow the instructions on the back as precise as possible. The feeling is like a prelude of what is on the way up there. Make sure to have water-based lubricant too. This keeps your anus moist and gives the feeling of self-lubrication. As recommended in the last post before he enters you have him try to use a finger first. This opens you up slowly and gradually before the penis makes its way.


Now its time! Well I find it more helpful to begin on my stomach when he’s about to enter. Breathe and of course exhale. We aren’t trying to pass out in this situation. Yes, it will hurt in the beginning enough to make you want to stop. The pain feels almost unbearable, but once you pace yourself with your guy; it only gets better. Focus on arching your back a motioning with him. When you do that it allows your muscles to relax and anus to open up. Pleasure then begins to enter the picture. Although the vagina serves its purpose the anus is tighter and grips every of his penis. This drives I’m crazy with pleasure as he strokes back and forth. With practice you can do the same moves with the anus as you can with the vagina. Go head ladies enjoy the ride and don’t forget protection!


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Sebastien "@TheGayBestie" Gaudin

As a New Jersey native it came to no surprise when Sebastien birthed a knack for writing. During his college days the young blogger gained experience through international talkers such as The Maury Show and The Mo’nique Show. After years of interning and assisting the aspiring journalist threw caution to the wind and launched The Gay Bestie, LLC. Ladies brace yourselves because Sebastien is taking you places where you’ll be sure to blush and share a laugh! He’s giving exactly what’s been missing. Grab you’re favorite beverage (i.e. red wine), sit back, and prepare to gab about this with your girlfriends the minute you see them.