Dating Confessions Vol. 15: He Wants A Threesome

By: Sebastien “@TheGayBestie” Gaudin

 

Some of us have either done it or thought of inviting another person into the bedroom. The idea within itself can be thrilling or a blow to someone’s ego. Now it may not be the easiest decision to make, but it’s definitely something to think about. Depending on your self-esteem a threesome can be exhilarating or detrimental.

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The topic has come up in my own relationship to honest and I promised after I tried it some years ago that I wouldn’t do it again. There was no thrill or excitement for me. The experience felt emotionless and awkward. I remember telling myself, “It was cool, but not for me.”

 

Its one thing to watch a “flick” and see other people do it, but when I was in the middle, it became too much work. If you know me then you know “too much work” isn’t for me.

 

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Luckily, I do have an amazing boyfriend who respects my decision on declining the idea at least for now. If it was a case where I was being pressured, understand it would get shut down extremely quick.

 

I know many of us do things for those that we love, but it’s highly important to have your esteem and safety from the inside out. Of course sexual health is an important factor. At the same time remember to keep in mind the truth of who you really are. Many times in life we place the needs of others before our own and then left with the battle wounds. Is it really worth it, though?

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What’s highly important is speaking up for yourself and what you really want!

 

If a ménage a trois is on your radar then by all means indulge and do your thing. Simply understand the decision is always yours at the end of the day.

About The Writer

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As a New Jersey native it came as no surprise when Sebastien, birthed a knack for talking and writing. During his college days the young blogger gained experience through international talkers such as The Maury Show and The Mo’nique Show. After years of interning and assisting the aspiring journalist threw caution to the wind and launched The Gay Bestie, LLC.  

 

The lifestyle and culture company provides a different spin on love, sex, relationships, and fashion.  #TGB focuses on the 21st Century woman and her loyal companion, other known as the gay bestie. Readers will find discussions that are usually held behind closed doors placed in the forefront to totally meet the needs of all. No, topic is ever off limits.

 

So ladies brace yourselves because Sebastien is taking you places where you’ll be sure to blush and share a laugh! He’s giving exactly what’s been missing. Grab you’re favorite beverage (i.e. red wine), sit back, and prepare to gab about this with your girlfriends the minute you see them.

Sebastien "@TheGayBestie" Gaudin

As a New Jersey native it came to no surprise when Sebastien birthed a knack for writing. During his college days the young blogger gained experience through international talkers such as The Maury Show and The Mo’nique Show. After years of interning and assisting the aspiring journalist threw caution to the wind and launched The Gay Bestie, LLC. Ladies brace yourselves because Sebastien is taking you places where you’ll be sure to blush and share a laugh! He’s giving exactly what’s been missing. Grab you’re favorite beverage (i.e. red wine), sit back, and prepare to gab about this with your girlfriends the minute you see them.

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