By: Sebastien “@TheGayBestie” Gaudin
“Stop it. Stop it. Stop it.” Probably runs through your mind as he’s doing it wrong.
This happens far too often all around the world and I most certainly am the advocate for self-pleasing. Meaning that I think it’s highly important for every woman to get her rocks off too. Although not every climax for men is earthshattering either, but for studies say that over have the population women will never have an actual orgasm. Say what?
If you’re familiar with the classic film, When Harry Met Sally then you’re quite familiar with the scene in the diner when Meg Ryan gave a winning performance of faking it for guy. Be honest how many of you have done the same thing just to get it over with?
Well it’s time to let those days go. If you keep it going now you’re just feeding the ego of a naïve man. Men have this idea that everyone is pleased the same way and as we know that isn’t the case. Some women love foreplay while others enjoy the full on deed more. If you’re comfortable enough to give your body to someone then be comfortable enough to say what you like aloud. Oh and if it hurts tell him too case some of these fools have no mercy. Sometimes nice and slow get the job at least started.
A helpful way to spice things up and start the conversation are sex dice! Yes, it’s perfectly ok to pull them out outside of special occasions to try something different once in awhile. The dice tell you what position to do and where to do it. The idea is cute and can be exhilarating. This opens the floor for dialogue afterwards. Be sure to follow up with reaching that amazing “O”. Keep in mind this may not happen the first time, but it takes trial and error. Learn your body and teach him along the way!
About The Writer
As a New Jersey native it came as no surprise when Sebastien, birthed a knack for talking and writing. During his college days the young blogger gained experience through international talkers such as The Maury Show and The Mo’nique Show. After years of interning and assisting the aspiring journalist threw caution to the wind and launched The Gay Bestie, LLC.
The lifestyle and culture company provides a different spin on love, sex, relationships, and fashion. #TGB focuses on the 21st Century woman and her loyal companion, other known as the gay bestie. Readers will find discussions that are usually held behind closed doors placed in the forefront to totally meet the needs of all. No, topic is ever off limits.
So ladies brace yourselves because Sebastien is taking you places where you’ll be sure to blush and share a laugh! He’s giving exactly what’s been missing. Grab you’re favorite beverage (i.e. red wine), sit back, and prepare to gab about this with your girlfriends the minute you see them.