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Dating Confessions Vol. 6: Be The Tease!

Dating Confessions Vol. 6: Be The Tease!

By: Sebastien “@TheGayBestie” Gaudin

Whether you’re dating someone or already in the relationship being a tease helps! Playing the role of the tease keeps him on his toes and anticipations up. The main trick is to progressively work your way up to different levels to not be confused with a BSer. Every good tease has to back it up every so often here and there, no pun intended.



So where to start, right? It all begins at home ladies. I suggest selecting an alluring aroma to spray or rub onto yourself prior to meeting him. An irresistible scent heightens his attraction and keeps you remembered. Even if someone else is wearing it he will always be drawn to the thought of you. As for myself, I adore body oils because they’re extremely inexpensive and the scent isn’t overpowering. I dab a little here and there and the compliments flow all day. These are major investments ladies. I promise.

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Next is attire. Be cautious and don’t dress like your saying, “Take me to bed now.” Your outfit should show your personality, highlight your best facial features, and of course be trendy. Fashion today is so left that almost anything is right. I advise to focus on the facial features because you want his attention to be on what you’re saying; especially if this is the early stages. Beware of the amount of cleavage, leg, or skin you want to show off. Now if you’re in the relationship then my dear show it and have him drooling over the thought.


Have fun and charm him all the way. Laugh and flirt your butt off. Flirt with him to the point where you have the excuse to make body contact. For example, lightly holding onto a bicep from laughing. That’s a dead on signal and follow that with a bashful look and a bite of the bottom lip. This all is sending him plenty of thoughts.


By this point he might just want to kiss you, but don’t because right now you’re THE TEASE. The ball is in your court and he’s pretty much captivated. Ladies take this moment and simply smile. Anything you say is probably music to his ears. Quickly, wrap things up and head yourself home. The best option from this point is to keep him wondering and thinking of you, hence why you should depart.


Not all teasing is bad!

About The Writer:


As a New Jersey native it came as no surprise when Sebastien, birthed a knack for l talking and writing. During his college days the young blogger gained experience through international talkers such as The Maury Show and The Mo’nique Show. After years of interning and assisting the aspiring journalist threw caution to the wind and launched The Gay Bestie, LLC.


The lifestyle and culture company provides a different spin on love, sex, relationships, and fashion.  #TGB focuses on the 21st Century woman and her loyal companion, other known as the gay bestie. Readers will find discussions that are usually held behind closed doors placed in the forefront to totally meet the needs of all. No, topic is ever off limits.


So ladies brace yourselves because Sebastien is taking you places where you’ll be sure to blush and share a laugh! He’s giving exactly what’s been missing. Grab you’re favorite beverage (i.e. red wine), sit back, and prepare to gab about this with your girlfriends the minute you see them.


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