Get Him Hard for Valentines Day Ladies…Gift Guide

Yes, you sexy Valentines vixen … the best gift you can give you guy this Valentines day  is to get him hard … not like that (get your mind out of the gutter!). Stiffen up his collar this Valentine’s Day with  Swiss Stays, the chic, adjustable, durable collar stays for men.

Created by custom clothier and founder of Astor & Black, David Schottenstein, Swiss Stays is the quintessential accessory most men didn’t even know they were missing to be the sharpest, most stylist version of themselves. Available in four different materials and price points (PVC $8; Stainless Steel $20; Brass $30; and Titanium $50), they come in packs of six and fit all 24 different styles of shirt collars on the market. Also available, a Sterling Silver leather gift set ($150), which makes a fabulous gift to add a little luxe to his life.

 I have to say i tried The Swiss Stays this weekend and i loved them! As a guy who is constantly wearing dress shirts around the city to events, i loved the way they kept my collar up.

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