The Lonely Starlet: Rihanna

We see Rihanna everywhere and sing her tunes all day long, but has she found happiness yet? Aside from all the chaos of her world and living life under the microscope does all that money and fame bring her fulfillment? Sometimes it’s so easy to look from the outside and judge a person, but sometimes looking at Rihanna it seems like all she wants is normalcy to a capacity. After seeing the demise of her notorious relationship with Chris Brown it’s almost looks as though she hasn’t been given the opportunity most of us get to grow and date at our free will.


Peeping through Instagram and seeing her recent 26th birthday celebration, I’m not saying you need a man to make you happy, but comparing last year with Chris Brown things are clearly different. She seemed so happy and at peace while celebrating with him.  After listening to “We All Want Love” I can’t help, but think that’s her truth. I could only image what would be said of me if I had public footage of my dating track record; just give me an F now. If Rihanna teaches us anything about love I say its being fearless and bold.


I adore how she placed the opinions of other’s aside to bravely follow her hearts desire. I don’t condone violence, but it seemed to be a lesson within it all. In present day it looks as though she knows when enough becomes enough. Love is a powerful ability, but some times the weight of the worry isn’t worth it. As a certified icon and innovator I’ll keep my fingers crossed for RiRi and potential love one day. After all, we all want love.

Sebastien "@TheGayBestie" Gaudin

As a New Jersey native it came to no surprise when Sebastien birthed a knack for writing. During his college days the young blogger gained experience through international talkers such as The Maury Show and The Mo’nique Show. After years of interning and assisting the aspiring journalist threw caution to the wind and launched The Gay Bestie, LLC. Ladies brace yourselves because Sebastien is taking you places where you’ll be sure to blush and share a laugh! He’s giving exactly what’s been missing. Grab you’re favorite beverage (i.e. red wine), sit back, and prepare to gab about this with your girlfriends the minute you see them.