How You Lovin’? How You Wanna Be…!

With the new sexual position “Surfboard” going viral from Beyoncé’s “Drunk In Love” hit, many women and men find that it is time to step their sex game up. It’s interesting to know that some people still think that the missionary position is going to get the job done. Come on now, with books like “50 Shades of Grey” touching many readers’ hands, you cannot possibly not want to get with the program! Being thrown around with light spankings and pulled hair are now what seem to be most appreciated and more normally accepted. The appropriate mix of pleasure and pain has become a part of the sexual routine of many people.

Mix it up a little bit to keep the sexual drive and excitement there! Don’t settle for boring sex! Find new ways and positions to satiate the inner freak. King Bey expressed it ever so eloquently with “Fill the tub up half way and ride it with my surfboard.” An innovative way of performing the “reverse cowgirl” while in the water, gives you a new position and a new arena to get busy. King Bey has also set the tone with her visual portrayal to her song “Partition”. Bring heels and a pole into your foreplay. Who’s to say that the heels have to come off? Allow the heels to be an extension of your inner freak! It is ok to be a freak in the bed. Many women loose this concept and use sex as a form of manipulation and punishment. Embrace your sexual goddess and make the sexual experience pleasurable for both you and your partner. There is nothing wrong with the “old faithful” of R Kelly’s “Bump N’ Grind”, or utilizing the feminist approach of Khia’s “Neck and Back” but don’t forget to add the variety of the new age such as Rihanna’s “S & M” and especially respecting the thrown with the beautiful and informative words of King Bey in her song “Rocket”! So don’t be afraid to sit that a** on him!!

Whitney J.