Written by: Langston John Blaze The first lyric to rapper/poet Wale’s Bad asks a question I never thought to ask myself, Is it bad that I never made love? What’s making love when you’re under 25? Hell, does it even matter? Those are the party years, when sex, hopefully safe sex, claims no thought or heart or feeling. But …
Every gay man experiences having an infatuation for a heterosexual man. It happens. He’s not just the heartthrob on the silver screen or magazine cover. No, he’s the gorgeous cashier at your favorite grocery store, the bank tailor, your classmate, and even a member of your church congregation. And for some of us, we come …
Last year, I had a textual relationship with someone’s boyfriend. Yep! Textual meaning sexual yet via text. I did. I own up to it and I’m not proud of it. Sexting, the combination between sex talk and text messaging, is one of the hottest things to make a romance or relationship spicy. Nevertheless, when it …
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Sometimes, I found myself attracted to women. My first crush was Jasmine Guy from A Different World, which grew into an infatuation for lighter skinned black women. I once heard Tyra Banks say, “The first relationship you have is with your mother/father.” She specified the bond a parent has with their child and how this …
Have you ever taken a hot shower and felt like you washed all the stress of that day off? And all that you’ve been going through with your family, school, your job, finances, and love…for those minutes, went away? Only thing is, you can’t live in the shower. I found myself wondering, Why can’t I …
Written by: Langston John Blaze “Maybe I should give up on men and start dating women,” I told my friend Omar, during one of our long talks about love and relationships over the phone. “Oh no, I don’t do fish.” I couldn’t help but laugh. Omar and I had seen each other go through many …
Written by: Langston John Blaze After a month of trying to play it cool and find ways to engage conversation, I finally built up the nerve to talk to Garrison Avery aka Grey, which was the nickname I’d given him since my friends told me he had intimidating grey eyes. Yet come to find out, …
Written by: Langston John Blaze The thing about dating successful older men is that they’ve experienced so much, they don’t have time for drama. I never had any intentions on dating a man twice my age. It kind of just happened. I met Michael White, a marketing executive, three summers ago at the Woodruff Art …
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Written by: Langston John Blaze I was going to have to accept that getting over Nathan might take more time than I had anticipated. Lord, thank God I was never actually in a relationship with him. I’d probably be in a madhouse at this point. Scrolling down my Facebook timeline, I saw this beautiful photo …
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